There is no right or wrong about how your feelings for me changed.
Of course that breaks my heart, but besides hoping to get you back, there are no blaming or pointing fingers.
You don't need to feel selfish or anything.
If Sebastian makes you happier than when you are with me, there's nothing I can do about it.
If seeing him during the weekends is more exhilarating than seeing me on the weekends, there nothing I can do about it.
If talking to him is more meaningful than talking to me, if you rather confide in him than confide in me,
I have failed at some point, and I didn't make you happy. I'll just have to accept that.
There is no anger towards you. Though there are lots of it towards myself.
I don't want you staying with me because you pity me.
I want the Day who wanted to stay with me because she loves me and wants to experience life with me.
Like how I want to experience life with her.
You don't need to feel sorry for me or pity me now either.
All I wanted is that you care about me, because you are my best friend.
I am upset, however, with the way you dealt with our relationship in the end.
At some point, when we were still together, you felt like you rather not talk to me about how you feel.
When you just left me and don't want to talk to me at all.
I felt I was a piece of an old toy, and you just want to shove me away and have nothing to do with it.
It is really unfair. I don’t deserve this. I care about you so much.
I don't want you to feel guilty when you think of me.
That is why you shouldn't just push me away or hide from me.
I don't want to be just one of your "acquaintances". I want to be your friend.
Someone you want to talk to. Someone you have fun hanging out with.
Someone you call up and ask how they are doing.
When you ever come by the Bay Area, you would want to drop by and visit me.
Or call me up one day and ask me to come down because you want to see me.
I am glad you are willing to write to me now.
Maybe we should have done this even when we were still together.
But it's not too late to start the healing process, right? ^_^~
I don't want to affect your mood when you are working, so I won't send you this through e-mail.
You can just read this on your own time in your cozy room.
For now, I wish you have a great morning and that work will get better for you.
Hope you have no guilt and no worries when you are with the one you love.
please know if you ever need me, I'll be there for you.
I'll miss you,
p.s. I'll e-mail you my address later.
p.p.s. This girl looks like you in your comfee spot.
>Date: Thu, 12 Feb 2004 07:41:31
>I read your message board. I will start writing to you more. It is
>unfair that you share your emotions and you always get left out in the
>cold with mine. I don't have much time right now, but I wanted to let
>you know that I still think about you from time to time. I worry about
>whether you are getting better. I feel bad that I left you alone in san
>jose. I have a feeling of guilt. I felt like I was being selfish. Was
>I being selfish? Was I wrong to do what I did? To me, it doesn't feel
>wrong, but when I think of you, I feel bad. I think of how unfair it
>was to you. I just don't know sometimes. In a way, I wish that you
>were angry with me because I would understand why you were mad at me.
>but you don't seem mad at me and I just don't know how to deal with
>that. I want you to be part of my life, but there are things I need to
>sort out right now and I just don't know where you fit in. I hope this
>is fine for now.
>p.s. I bought you a present, perhaps you can call it a x-mas,
>valentine's, birthday gift. I wanted to send it to you with some of
>your mail. What is your address again? If you would rather I didn't
>send you the stuff, just let me know.